Dementia & Caring

My dad has multi source dementia (whatever that means) and I look after him. This is a scattered collection of thoughts on that - i'ts not advice, it's just us muddling through. There will be ranty bits, sad bits and happy bits.

Monday, 4 June 2012

Those bloody nhs dementia ads

They should also say "not that we'll do anything if you persuade them to come in" on the ads. The list of people who have been little or no help:

My dad's GP - eventually referred him to the emergency mental health team* but has done nothing else except mess up his prescriptions

The emergency mental health team* - talked a good talk and did put him on antidepressants which at least stopped him saying that he wanted to die. They got him a CT scan too which led to ...

The mental health team that are apparently specialists in ageing issues - diagnosed him with multi source dementia but have done nothing else.

The various mental health nurse teams* who came round to check he hadn't killed himself but didn't do anything.

The district nurses who seem so horrifically overworked I don't want to be mean but have been little help and do as little as is humanly possible which currently is nothing.

Social services - the amount of useless they have been cannot be described in words. They come round, ask if he can do everything, he lies, they tick a box and leave. HE'S GOT DEMENTIA YOU IDIOTS.

Some of my family - let's not go there today!

* all the teams are overlapping and have very similar names, I've given up trying to keep them straight in my head.

I plod on with no help - well none that doesn't come out of a bottle hating the lot of them!

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